% Compatibility
This pairing can be a challenge, they have different temperaments and communicate in different ways. This can cause major conflict. The 4’s are very direct and the 5’s tend to be more indirect and diplomatic. 5’s desire change and 4’s don’t like it, how can this work. To be happy in this coupling they will both need to respect the differences and pay attention to each other. They will need to learn what is inferred rather than what is said.
Compatible Traits
  • 4’s Down to earth nature and the worldly 5’s can work well together
  • 5’s versatility can enhance the 4’s reliability and dependability
  • The methodical 4 will appreciate the 5’s adventurous nature
  • The social 5 will help the 4’s trait of being sometimes boring and social awkwardness
  • The 5’s will appreciate the 4’s need to be the rock in the relationship
Incompatible Traits
  • Conflict can arise when the 5 needs to be social and the 4 wants to stay at home.
  • Stability is important to the 4, on the reverse side the 5 can be self-indulgent, irresponsible and careless
  • The 5 is freedom loving and the tendency of the 4 to be more homebound can be incompatible
  • After the first bloom of love has waned the 5 becomes bored, the 4 will need to understand and step up
  • The 4’s tend to be the stabilizer in the relationship, the 5’s need to appreciate this important trait